Facing reality......
But what will happen when the 2 meet in real life? How would the conversation go?
That's the time when you forget about all your accomplishments at school and realize that you have nothing to talk about........"I was at school, then came home......then went back to school"......... I don't know .........it seems kinda scary...... I have no idea how this will turn out......... NO IDEA......... as my friend says...........I'm like a highschool student ........ experiencing what what people experience when they're in grade 10! but is it really too late? is being 23 like real old? so should I not do anything forever just because I did nothing in the past? I don't think so........ so I will go out there and see what happens and if I realize that I really do need something to talk about other than school I will come back feeling happy about the fact that I learned that and will work on that in the future..........
Will let you know!
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Open Your Heart
Bring more love into your life
You are not alone if you want a little more love in your life. Yet you may be forgetting the one person who can fill your whole life with love - you! By opening your heart to life, to others and to yourself, you'll grow love in every corner of your world.
Love lifeIf you want to get the most out of life, you really have to love it. It's easy to be overwhelmed by challenges and lose site of the beauty and joy life has to offer. But you don't have to let painful issues in your past or present get in the way of happiness. Part of embracing life is changing your expectations and realizing that problems in life are not always able to be "fixed" - but they can be managed. Through therapy, supportive relationships and self-love, you can learn to cope with your problems in a way that makes your life happier and healthier. And once you've learned to overcome your challenges through managing your issues, you can finally begin to appreciate life as a gift and really learn to love it.
Love others
Loving others isn't necessarily about serving soup at a homeless shelter or donating money to your favorite charity. Those things are great, but they aren't the only ways you can love others. Loving others means seizing opportunities in your daily life to be more thoughtful, helpful and caring. It means taking the time to consider how someone will feel before you say or do something. It means being sensitive to people who have different needs than you.
It's also important to find the best way to love our friends and family. Some people like to hear words of love, while others appreciate small gifts as gestures. Others want to see the love expressed in thoughtful action. And still others value physical affection above all. Take the time to discover how they are comfortable receiving love and then make an effort to share it with them in that way.
Yet the greatest challenge really is remembering to be loving every single day. It's sometimes difficult, but you must approach all things with a loving attitude. Whether you're dealing with a stranger who cut you off in traffic or a partner who really hurt your feelings, try to give them the benefit of the doubt. Just as light changes when viewed through a prism, a situation can be completely transformed when viewed through the prism of love. Try to see the world through a prism of love and all aspects of your life will be transformed and made more beautiful.
Love yourself
But before you can really love life and others, you have to start at the center of your world: yourself. It sounds so simple, learning to love yourself, but it's really one of the most difficult challenges of life. Learning to love yourself is not just about treating yourself to an ice cream cone after a bad day - though that's not a bad idea! Loving yourself is being at peace with your flaws and gifts. It's forgiving your mistakes and cherishing your triumphs. It's taking care of yourself for the short and long term.
Loving yourself is the most dramatic way to bring love in to your life forever. When you love yourself, there's always someone who will love you unconditionally: you
http://www.californiapsychics.com/articles/Features/707/Open_Your_Heart.aspx
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see? That's the answer I was looking for........ or the problem I have.......... LOVING MYSELF........ that's the first step...........I'm sure I can do the rest if I do this......... but how???? I've always thought that the only way to love me is to see someone love me.......... no? can't it work this way? recieve love and realize you're worthy of it before giving love? I don't know??? but then it turns around....... I dont really think that anyone would......so why wait? I have to do something for me first so I can love myself before I can love others.........